Rebooting is not a donation-regaining the happiness of life

Author: Master of Rehabilitation

Source: WeChat Official Account

Confucius said in the Book of Changes, "The accumulation of goodness is not enough to become famous, and the accumulation of evil is not enough to destroy the body", and he also said that "the house of goodness must have surplus, and the house of evil will have surplus." Nan Huaijin once said that most people in the world are careless, and most of them don't pay attention to the good and evil retribution around them, but if you prolong the time and pay attention to watching around you, the retribution of good and evil in the past 20 years is actually very obvious.

The things I have experienced and the changes that have brought me not only pain, but also a lot of gains. The biggest change lies in my outlook on life and the world. When I was young and crazy, there was no morality in my heart, nothing worthy of awe, and no teacher or elders taught me the principles of life systematically. "Teacher, preaching, teaching, and solving puzzles", I think the whole focus of modern education is "teaching", that is, let people master the skills of earning a living, and have skills, but the most important preaching and solving puzzles have been thrown away. Into the pile of old paper.

Today’s academic qualifications and professional education backgrounds have limited space to play. Most of these things only act as stepping stones at the stage of entering the society, and after a certain stage of professional development, professional knowledge at new heights is useless. In the place of strength, the higher development of many professions on a certain basis depends on the level of speaking and doing things, and these all come from the missing important link in education-"preaching" and "solving puzzles", like teachers, construction industry, Editing, advertising planning and other industries. When you grow into a principal, manager, vice president, and director in your respective fields, no one will look at your professionalism at this time. What determines your future development is leadership, execution, unity and cohesion, etc. level.

I am ashamed that I had very little contact with traditional culture in my youth. I remember that I felt that an ancient poem was beautiful for the first time when I was 22, and I also felt that some ancient things were useless. For example, after finding a teacher for a child, the ancients would bow and salute the teacher with the child on the first day of school. I thought it was impossible for me to give such a big gift. Between me and the teachers I met, it was more like social service. The relationship between the provider and the audience in In this impetuous society, there are fewer and fewer emotional factors in the teacher-student relationship.

At the age of 23, I came into contact with Nan Huaijin’s works. Nan Shi’s works involve traditional cultures such as the Analects of Confucius, Mencius, and Lao Zi, as well as the field of Taoism. In the process of reading Nan Shi’s works from the shallower to the deeper, my life Once I felt that the original teacher should be a life leader who enlightened people and helped build a person's spiritual world and personality.

Suddenly I understood why the ancients would lead the children to pay respects to the teacher. Although I have never veiled my face with Nanshi, I regard him as the most important person I have encountered and who really makes me experience the demeanor of a teacher. Between the lines, I deeply feel his role in educating young people and guiding the social atmosphere. The painstaking care and sincere teachings.

Zeng Shiqiang said in "The Enlightenment of Hu Xueyan" that the ultimate reason for Hu Xueyan's failure was that his knowledge was not enough to match his career. In the first half of Hu Xueyan's career, his talent and intelligence were enough to enable him to develop his career, but when he In the end, when he was rich enough to be an enemy, his talent and intelligence were not enough to guide his career.

I think Nanshi is right. Learning is the ability to speak and do things. A learned person is definitely a person who can do well in the world. The process of learning is to learn how to behave in the world, so that you can seek good and avoid evil, and further realize yourself. Value process. It's like Lao Tzu's "less desires and selfishness, simple and simple", and Confucius's "slowly hide pirates, and seduce lewdness." Coquettish, it is easy to induce people's desire.) In "Zhu Zi's Family Management Quotes", "the maid is beautiful and the concubine is the blessing of the non-boudoir; when you see sex, you will be lustful and report to your wife and daughter".

I feel that traditional culture is to pass on the wisdom of the ancients and pass down the experience they have learned in life, so that future generations can understand the truth without experiencing those setbacks, further conform to the laws of nature, avoid pain and contradictions, and achieve happiness. Life. However, this is not the case in modern society. Even people who graduated from prestigious universities and highly educated have their own solid spiritual home? They are still suffering and confused in the face of this world. There are also many people who use extreme methods to solve problems. Although they are smart and capable, they are much better than ordinary people.

What made me resolutely start rebooting is the ancient knowledge of Chinese medicine. Because I got prostatitis in the later stage of hand-chong, it coincided with the hot sales of health-preserving books in 2011, and I was in distress trying to seek help from popular Chinese medicine books. "Seeking a doctor is worse than seeking oneself", "Speaking health from head to toe", "Clearing health thoroughly" and other books are very good. The description of the symptoms caused by indulgence in them makes me very surprised, and I feel that I hate to meet each other late. It was only then that I realized that the culprit that caused my various diseases, pains, and psychological problems was the hand punch. Only then did I completely abandon the harmlessness theory. The psychological impact caused by this is very big. I found that the theory of Chinese medicine is very in line with my personal experience and feelings.

The ancient oriental traditional culture is like a code in the blood. I only discovered its charm when I was in my 20s. I was attracted and started to return. Enter the Tao by medicine, and the Tao is manifested by medicine. I started to learn from Chinese medicine. I tried diet therapy, moxibustion, foot bath, Gua Sha, cupping, Health Qigong, Chinese patent medicine... I became a doctor for a long time. I tried almost all the methods in health books until I came to see Chinese medicine. It is through experience that I understand that Chinese medicine is the fastest effective and most helpful way to reboot and recover.

Starting from Chinese medicine, I came into contact with Mahayana step by step. When I traveled to Mount Emei this year, I saw the couplet of Master Hongyi engraved in front of the door with the phrase "Should be compassionate, pity the other and be fainted", and I was really touched. The Silent Master once said that a person is like an empty bottle, what it holds, and what a person thinks determines what he does. If you are unreasonable, being unconscious can make people do anything without scruples. As for me, I used to be crazy when I was a teenager, but now I am self-cultivating and working hard to be good.

Although it is the same person, the water in the "bottle" is completely different. The current me is completely different from the former me. Philosophers once said that one cannot step into the same river twice. I also think that human beings are constantly changing. As long as they can achieve what the Four Precepts said, "In the past, for example, they died yesterday, and in the future, for example, they will be born today." If you continue to absorb traditional culture and improve your ideological realm, you can start a new life!

Many people start rebooting because of the pain caused by indulgence. The same is true for me. The goal of most people is to be healthy. Now rebooting well, and what will happen after the body is recovered. Some people reboot for the purpose of rebooting. Recovery and strengthening of sexual abilities, once you get better, you will rush to repeat the same mistakes, and ultimately fall short. The purpose is to restore sexual abilities, let alone those who have this purpose. It is difficult to reboot for a long time. The benefits of color. Things will rot by themselves and then worms will grow. In the same way, if you want to change yourself, you must first change your mind. Short-term rebooting purposes will only bring less life gains. If you look at the long-term, your entire life will be affected by it. Change.

Karma is the biggest motivation that supports me to persist in rebooting. I feel that only by recognizing the truth of karma in the world can we truly uphold ethics, and when people realize that the efforts of reforming and practicing goodness can bring more benefits to themselves in the future, can they stimulate their subjective initiative. On the contrary, if the goal of rebooting is set to be superficial and realistic, then most people will not be able to persist on the path of rebooting for long. Those who can reboot for a long time generally have their own spiritual beliefs and ethics.

The reason why I believed in karma at first was because in the gloomy and desperate years when I was young, I had been complaining for a long time, thinking hard about why I had to suffer so much, and why my life was so bad. Shun. Until later, I saw the saying that the indulgence recorded in traditional culture and Mahayana scriptures would cause suffering in life, unsatisfactory life, emotional frustration, etc. It was like a divine initiation in an instant. I suddenly understood why it was so painful. It is entirely retribution, the inevitable result of my own nasty evil deeds, and my experience has completely confirmed the correctness of indulging evil retribution. I believe that as long as you pay close attention to observation, you can discover the many turbulences that begin to appear in your life after indulgence.

After finally finding the cause of the pain in life, I breathed a long sigh of relief. Instead, I felt that I had come out of a long period of confusion and despair, like a person who had been drowning for a long time came to the surface and breathed the first breath of fresh air. I feel I have grasped the straw that saved myself. Since it is true that indulgence makes one's life full of pain, then it must also be true that a proper style makes one's life happy.

With this excitement of grasping life, I started the road of rebooting. It is precisely out of this understanding that when my rebooting beliefs were shaken many times, I said to myself, I will never, never allow myself to make the same mistake again. If I said that my previous wrong behavior was due to ignorance, Then it is shameless to make mistakes again after understanding the truth. Whenever the rebooting faith is shaken and confused, the depression and pain experienced when young and indulgence, as well as the confusion and despair of searching for the cause at the beginning, all transform into a powerful force that supports oneself on the path of rebooting.

Since ignorance drove my crazy evil at the beginning, now let me reform and achieve a new life. Sometimes I think that the pain and predicament in life are really the best teachers. Without experiencing the most extreme pain, I will not inspire the strongest desires when hope comes.

Believe that good and evil are rewarded, and in this declining society, hold on to yourself, and every effort you make on the road of rebooting will sooner or later you will see gains. The truths of the world need to be verified before they are true or false. If you don't believe these and don't try to verify it yourself, then you will lose the opportunity to realize the truth. Just like this time I took the exam (I was admitted as a civil servant), although it looked like a carp leaping over the dragon gate, people around me felt very surprised and suddenly changed.

Nothing is accidental. I think the seed of the test result was planted five years ago when I decided to start rebooting. Five years of hard work allowed this seed to take root and germinate, and it is finally blooming and bearing fruit today. when. After the exam was fulfilled, the spillover effect brought to me was beyond imagination and far exceeded the meaning of a new job. I and my family have undergone a lot of changes in this month. It turned out that everyone at my workplace knew about me. I suddenly became a celebrity. My parents’ faces were full of smiles, and the stumbling relationship between them became much more harmonious.

Relatives and friends did not hesitate to compliment after hearing about it. Sometimes I feel really moved. After I got a bad habit from junior high school, I never heard this kind of praise from others. Now, it feels like the life before the indulgence started has returned. I have participated in the public examination no less than ten times. I really didn’t expect it. In the end, I ended the public examination like this. Even my sister said that I didn’t expect you to do it. I myself think that I have done something that I didn’t even dare to think about in the past ten years. .

Finally, I still want to tell everyone the truth. Rebooting is not worth donating. Every bit of merit and effort you make on the road of rebooting will not be in vain. These will make you leave the indulgence person far behind, and persevere. Sooner or later, you will find "being good." A true day. Therefore, I feel that the fate created by ignorance was wasted, but now it seems to be a good thing. I have a deep understanding of the truth of doing good, which has reshaped my values.

Restraining desire is a lifelong matter. Even if you get married and have children in the future, you must understand the principles of abstinence and health. People should focus their energy on things that are more meaningful and valuable. Indulgence will only make people go downhill step by step, while rebooting and cultivating kindness can regain the happiness of life! I wish you all, I hope everyone can recover soon! Everyone has their own dreams, in order to dream, we must stick to it!